Helping Donors Ask Their Most Perplexing Questions-Recording: Helping Donors

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The webinar, introduced by Elizabeth Rhodes of CGP, featured Eddie Thompson of Thompson & Associates discussing how fundraisers can help donors resolve the key questions that prevent major charitable gifts. Eddie argued that donors usually prioritize family first, not charity, so gift officers must help them answer three core questions: whether they have enough to live on for life, how much and in what form to leave to heirs, and whether their “social capital” should go to the IRS or charity.<br /><br />He emphasized that major gifts often come from older donors, especially those in their 80s, when heirs are more financially secure and retirement concerns are clearer. A major theme was that many baby boomers now choose to leave less—or nothing—to heirs, often because they want children to build independence and resilience. Eddie shared statistics showing 36% plan no inheritance and 47% do not plan to leave the majority of their estate to heirs, creating major opportunities for charity.<br /><br />He encouraged using “blended gift” language to discuss family giving, since it can naturally lead to blended charitable gifts. He also distinguished between habitual, emotional, and strategic donors, noting that the most promising prospects are often quiet, careful, wealthier-than-their-lifestyle individuals who view giving as an investment rather than a donation.<br /><br />In Q&A, Eddie advised that the best charitable vehicles depend on the donor’s goals, assets, and cash flow, and reiterated that donors need facts—not pressure—to overcome fear about their own financial security. He closed by stressing that truly donor-centered planning builds trust, unlocks larger gifts, and benefits both families and nonprofits.

Keywords

major charitable gifts

donor-centered planning

planned giving

family inheritance

retirement security

baby boomers

blended gifts

charitable vehicles

wealth transfer

fundraising strategy